Need homepage redesign for Church website (fast tracked!)

See current design here: http://screencast.com/t/MGMxMTY5Z

We need our Church website designed to have a similar "feel" as this site:
http://www.cmalliance.org/

Things from this sample site that we like are:
1. contemporary feel
2. hand written font used in appropriate places
3. somewhat "distressed" feel to the design

Things that we don't like about this sample site
1. Seems just a bit too dark overall
2. The "what, where, how" part of the middle of the site look too boring/plain
3. The links at the top also seem too plain

Again, here is our current design:
- http://screencast.com/t/MGMxMTY5Z

Our current site is way too "cheesy" looking, from the logo to the use of way too many different colors, to the fonts used.

We need it all given a completely different feel.

Thanks.

Ages ranging mostly from 15-40.

A .psd file

We need our Church website designed to have a similar "feel" as this site:
http://www.cmalliance.org/

Things from this sample site that we like are:
1. contemporary feel
2. hand written font used in appropriate places
3. somewhat "distressed" feel to the design

Things that we don't like about this sample site
1. Seems just a bit too dark overall
2. The "what, where, how" part of the middle of the site look too boring/plain
3. The links at the top also seem too plain

Again, here is our current design:
- http://screencast.com/t/MGMxMTY5Z

Our current site is way too "cheesy" looking, from the logo to the use of way too many different colors, to the fonts used.

We need it all given a completely different feel.

Thanks.